Love. What a word! A word made so perfectly to define such a beautiful feeling. It is truly a word made in heaven, and crafted to perfection by the Creator Himself. It has a meaning so diverse, so pure, that just by saying the word, we transfer so much emotion, so much of positive energy into the surroundings, that it fills up the entire room, and your entire self. Without love, none of the creations would have existed, let alone have a meaning. God made Man because of His Love, Man loves to give meaning to that God given Life.
It is impossible to find a soul on earth who hasn't felt or realised the meaning of Love-whether it be the warmth of Love, giving Love, the need for Love, whatever it may be. The more you run away from it, the more you will need it in the future. Love can be felt right away, or may grow inside you like a plant nurtured by with your Hope, faith, and those countless dreams that you shower upon it. It is always up to us how we want to love, and how we should be loved. It all lies in that one line-"Love...to be loved!"
Which brings us to the question-"What IS Love?" Like i said before, Love is a deep, intense feeling that cannot be felt or touched (literally), or even affectively put into words. Countless writers have dedicated their lives in the quest for finding Love, gifting us with infinite exceptional works in the process. But still...Love, remains a mystery to the human hand, the human mind, but not to the human heart. Then how exactly does one communicate Love to the other??
It is difficult to do the stated. But it is certainly not impossible. This may be done through the heart. You need to express, to feel the love you have for the other, and the feeling must be so pure, so honest, that it creates this aura around you. This you can radiate around you, and make the other feel. All this may sound very complex and mostly gibberish, but it takes only an understanding of your own self, your heart, to do this. And it is effective.
But all this depends on one question:
What does Love mean to YOU? Is it something that you do to feel, or something that doesn’t really have any meaning in your life? Does Love really make your world go round?
There are so many people you see go behind Love and the whole ’finding-the-other-half’ thing. But HOW many among those are real? The fact is that MOST of them are wrong. Most people just want to be in Love for the wrong kind of hype created by films, books and other ways to lose yourself in the wrong idea of what Love is. To be honest, I myself have got lost in several such cases. Thankfully, I was able to realize before it got too late. But this is not the case in many of the present situations and to bring yourself back from such relationships is major pain, to at least one of you. Keep this in mind when you feel that intense need for being with that someone.
There are also some cases where people don’t respect the feeling and just go ahead and tell random people they love them just for the sake of being in a relationship. Guys and girls, learn to respect the feeling. God has given you a heart. But it doesn’t mean you go ahead and throw it around at the face of every random person you meet. Please honour the one you Love, and honour the feeling itself. This is a request, to avoid heartbreaks.
In the other cases, GO RIGHT AHEAD AND TELL THEM HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM. Most love stories end before they even start, because of the fact that they are not told. The reason is that one of the two people tends to over think and also finds the stupidest and lamest of excuses for being dumped by the other. One question-How would you know if you never told? Telling someone you Love them is neither a crime nor something to be embarrassed about. It’s the one confirmation that you have a heart with the ability to love, and that is a rare thing in the world these days. So go ahead and tell them you love them.
When Love fails, what do you do? I’m sorry but I haven’t really found an answer to that one question. But isn’t the failure of your love based solely on how you take the failure to be? Success or failure of YOUR love does NOT, in my opinion, lie on whether you get the other person. It lies in whether your love for the person dies with that, or if it still goes on. So this one question needs to be answered by you. Good luck with that.
Love is a beautiful feeling. It’s the best feeling in the world. Do respect it, and honour it.
P.S. To the girl I Love:”I LOVE YOU.”
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